EGOISM : Senses of Self

 

Every individual has its own self importance and it manifest thru our actions towards a certain situation or scenarios. Living  oneself requires a collection of decisions, judgement, and how we act without relying on external authority.

When we tend to dig deeper , look at into someone's motivation and desires at times if reflects their inner intentions. Motivations fuels the desire to achieve more, to take an effort and persevere .Our life reflects our choices and decisions which motivates our actions. Having messy thoughts immerse us into something disastrous actions that would lead to hurt others even if you have good intention.

As we face challenges and unpredictable bumps along the way we tend to lose balance and have difficulty to get back on tract.Too much self importance sometimes hinder growth , it lead to unending question of WHY.We as a human have a set of goals, believes and experiences that mold us to be a person we are right now.Environment plays big factor how your pieces form and synchronize to your own principles and beliefs. 

We simply adhere into our own understanding without considering others factors along the way.Too much self importance can lead to a rotten tomatoes.Some People doesn't aware that they have TOXIC EGO, it simply characterized by an arrogant aura and selfish impulses.To be able to have a clear headed mindset with humble soul , you may see the following.

1. ADOPT A BEGINNER's MINDSET -Remind yourself how much you don't know , it is " Impossible to learn that which one already knows" . Accepting that we didn't know anything and life offers a vast of things that we are not capable of figuring out.Put yourself in rooms where you're the least knowledgeable person. Observe and learn.

2.FOCUS ON THE EFFORT NOT THE OUTCOME-Exerting effort to do a certain things may satisfy our self it could give the sense of success and peace of mind. Doing your best is what matters, we must highlight the fact EFFORT is the key.External reward are just an icing on the cake.

3.CHOOSE PURPOSE OVER PASSION- Passion doesn't consistently pave your way while people with purpose think of it as passion combined with reason are more dedicated and have more control over their direction.

4.STOP TALKING & FACE YOUR WORK- We as an individuals fond on talking on social media getting validation and fake internet frontage and tend to avoid some uncertain and difficult work. 

5.HUMILITY IS THE ANTIDOTE OF PRIDE-Remind yourself to stay on the ground no matter how big accomplishment you have on your table.

6.FOCUS ON THE PRESENT MOMENT NOT THE STORY- Learn to value the present , stop on telling stories of your success. Stay low key.

7.MANAGE YOURSELF ,AND OTHERS- Being smart is not enough you should learn to manage small compartments of your life.

8.LEARN WHAT MATTERS TO YOU & LEARN TO SAY NO.-Know your priorities and have a tranquility to know what you are after.

9.FORGET CREDITS & RECOGNITION- When we are at the beginning part of our pursuits we need to make an effort to trade short term gratification for a longer payoff.Learn to some successful individuals absorb as much as you can. 

10. CONNECT WITH NATURE-It is where you realized how small you are in connection with everything else.

11.WHEN YOU FIND YOUR SELF IN A HOLE -STOP DIGGING- Our Ego screams and rattles when it is wounded.Don't make things worse. Don't dig yourself further. Make a plan.

12.CHOOSE LOVE OVER HATRED. Hate is like eroding acid that eats away the center of you life, choose love .

Hope you've got something :) 

My 3 am thoughts

 

During these long nights wrapped in anxiety, I find myself drawn into prayer—into a quiet conversation between my heart and something far greater than myself. In those moments of stillness, as I listen to the gentle whisper of my inner voice, I begin to feel safe… held… secure.

Processing life, for me, is an act of surrender and understanding. Life unfolds as it is meant to, and when we attempt to twist its nature to fit our fears or expectations, we risk disturbing the fragile peace within us. There are battles we fight in silence—unseen wars that take place in the dimly lit corners of our personal sanctuaries. Yet it is often there, in that quiet darkness, where we discover the faint glow of our own light.

I have learned that I carry my life at my own rhythm—unrushed, intentional, and deeply personal. To move at my own pace, to savor moments, to mend the broken spaces with my own hands—these are not signs of weakness. They do not require me to lower my standards, nor to compromise the respect I owe myself.

There are forces in life beyond our control, beyond even our understanding. To overanalyze every storm is to forget that we are human—creatures guided sometimes by logic, sometimes by emotion, and often by the mysterious intersection of both.

And so, I allow myself to breathe.
To gather the scattered fragments of who I am.
To feel everything—grief, hope, fear, peace—without apology.

I am learning that change is rarely a thunderclap moment where everything transforms overnight. More often, it is a quiet season—a sacred stretch of time where we learn, stumble, rise, adjust, and grow.

I hold deep admiration for those who weather their own hurricanes in silence—those who carry storms within their chests yet still sit calmly with a warm cup of coffee, composed and steady. They rarely speak of their struggles, yet they nurture peace within themselves and somehow still find strength to uplift others.

And above all, I have come to understand this truth:
When God resides within your heart and soul, no mountain is too vast, no path too broken to cross.

The road may not be gentle. The journey may not be easy. But one day, you will stand amazed at who you have become—because God has been shaping you all along, placing moments, people, and lessons exactly where they need to be. Not to change you into someone else—but to help you fully become you, through His grace.

To follow His path is to slowly, bravely release your potential. To live with contentment—not because you have settled for less, but because you have chosen to focus on who He calls you to be.

For everything here on earth is temporary. The shine of superficial things will one day fade like dust under sunlight.

So keep moving forward.
Keep shining.

Let your light travel beyond distances you may never see—
Touching hearts in places you may never know—
And echoing into eternity, where true meaning lives.